Wednesday, July 16, 2008

The Couple Diversion

So I may be a horrible person. Okay not really, but it's just the deployment talking. I have found that the hubby being gone does not make it easier to deal with other couples. Sometimes I just feel cheated, like the Navy is getting more from my marriage than I am. The Navy gets a hell of a lot more from my husband than I have gotten for a long, long time. Seeing happy couples out in public, especially here on base just doesn't seem fair. To see these guys home all the time, working 7 to 1 and then coming home everyday just doesn't seem fair. Yes I understand that my hubby has a different job, and yes I understand that it's not their fault but sometimes I can't help but get jealous. I am extemely proud of my husand and what he is doing for our country and I support him 100%, I just wish that he could do his job here and come home every night.

I hate dealing with other couples and I really don't deal well with other women so a majority of my friends are guys. Which has caused a whole new problem in my world. My hubby's friend out here, who I was/am friends with his wife has accused me of cheating on my husband because I hang out with guys. First and foremost this is not even remotely true. Second the hubby knows who I hang out with and pretty much gets one hell of a detailed account of the going ons while he's been gone. It just irks me that this guy has the audacity to tell me that I'm cheating on my hubby because I hang out with guys. Mind you this is the same guy who won't let his wife have her guy friends over to hang out while he's at work. I just wish that the drama would cease. I hate drama but obviously it never ends. I'm beyond ready for the hubby to get home.

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